Wednesday, 30 July 2008

The person with whom everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong!

by: fascinating_ann

What if you’re always waiting for the right person, for the perfect partner or for your dream boy/girl, but it seems so hard that when he/she came along, you just find out, the timing was just wrong.


Di ba another pain? Sabi ko nga sa isa kong topic laging kakambal ng pagmamahal ang pasakit. Hindi ka pwedeng magmahal ng hindi ka nasasaktan. Pano kung naramdaman mo na sya na ang taong para sayo pero hindi pa panahon? May mga dahilan kung bakit may wrong timing ika nga.

It can happen that he/she just broke up with their partners and they are not yet able to move on. It’s hard to have a new relationship when we know that we’re not fully recover from pain with our previous relationship. Mahirap ng maging panakip butas sabi nga ng friend kong si coldsouljeff, dba bro? Baka you need lang na magintay like sa mga kantang ito:

Hwag ka lang mawawala chorus:
“Hwag ka lang mawawala kapag nariyan ka ako’y sumisigla,
kahit hindi ko pa kaya ang magmahal
sana sa akin ay hindi magsasawa
puso’y ibibigay sayo sa oras na maghilom ang sugat nito
panahon lamang ang hinihiling sayo, sana ay pagbigyan mo ako.”










At ito pa.......

Kung ako na lang sana chorus:
“Kung ako na lang sana ang iyong minahal
Hindi ka na muling magiisa,
kung ako nalang sana ang iyong minahal
hindi ka na muling luluha pa
Hindi ka na mangangailangan pang
Humanap ng iba, narito ang puso ko maghihintay lamang sayo
Kung ako na lang sana”






Sometimes naman they have already their partner so paano ka makakasingit dba? Wrong timing na naman, kahit mahal na mahal mo na. Pero ganun talaga, hindi lahat ng gusto mo, you can have it. At ito naman ang kakantahin mo:

Kung alam mo lang by Rachelle Ann Go
“Kung alam mo lang kung gano kita kamahal
Nagtitiis, ngdurusa sa tuwing kapiling mo sya
Kung alam mo lang na mahal na mahal kita
ngunit ako’y lalayo nang di na muling masaktan”









Or there’s also an instance that ikaw naman mismo ang may minamahal na,
nang maramdaman mong may iba ka pang mahal (ang takaw mo namn joke!)
Mahirap kase bka makasakit ka sa taong nagmamahal sayo. At ito naman ang kakantahin mo:

BAKIT NGAYON KA LANG
“Bakit ngayon ka lang
Bakit ngayon kung kelan ang aking puso’y
Mayroon nang laman
Sana’y nalaman ko na darating ka sa buhay ko
Di sana’y naghintay ako

Ikaw sana ang aking yakap yakap
Ang iyong kamay lagi ang aking hawak
At hindi kanya, at hindi kanya”





Even if we don’t want to experience some of this complicated kind of love, we can’t able to control the feelings and emotions that we have.
Sabi nga ng iba kapag matalino ka sa academics, bobo ka daw sa pag-ibig.
So don’t wait for the perfect one, because nobody is perfect and maybe you can try the wrong one who is willing to be right just for you.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Girl just move on, yes it can easily be said but very hard to do... pain in anyway is there.. whether you let go today, tomorrow, next week or next year it is just the same if you wanna let go. the problem with you is that you stick on the pain, not doing something to let the pain go.... there is always a proper timing and time is NOW. forget the past coz it is already a history to where you will learn in cherishing what is today coz you can never tell what will gonna happen tomorrow. yes consider so many things but don't let it dictate to what you fell coz your the master of your faith and the captain of your soul. and no one in this world can tell or dictate to you what happiness is so when you fell it go for it. no proper timing nor proper palce to wait 'coz whats happening to you right now is the reality of life who and what you are that you need to face and accept and i assure you that happiness will lie down in your heart and it will dictate the right one.

Anonymous said...

Girl, there are no perfect things then something was wrong. when you say perfect everything are in its proper and absolute 100% free alleluja!!! no exemption. if you say "but the timing was just wrong" there must be something wrong with your feeling and that contradict what you mean. composed yourself girl free up all what had past so that you will be on your proper composure of yourself in dealing with your feelings. you cannot love whole heartedly if something is wrong which from your title "but the timing was just WRONG."

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm kahit nka anonymous ka, parang i know you sa mga snabi mo,actually i didn't wrote it because of my past, i just think of it and relate it to songs.how would you know that I'm still on pain with my past.I'm fine now, really.pakilala ka naman MR. Anonymous if im not mistaken.

Gelai said...

hmmmmmm nakakarelate ako jan, lahat ng kanta na yan, kabisado ko na hehehe, anything had to be said and done, the bottom line is kung saan ka masaya dun ka, kung anong makakapapasaya at makakapagbuo ng araw mo dun ka, regardless kung anong mga sinasabi sayo ng taong nakapaligid sayo! ( baket nabibigay ba nila yung kaligayahan na naidudulot sayo ng jowa mo ngayun? hindi di ba?) But alam mong risky ang pinasok mong situation, cyempre you are aware na there's a consequences, and you are the one who is resposible to take that... so for the meantime just enjoy life, enjoy mo lang ang kilig moment mo hehehe ...? Me point din si anonymous sasabihin mo pa madali makapagbigay ng ganyan opinyon kase wala siya sa situation na yan but eventually pag dumating na ang time na unti unti mo ng narerealize, na me tama siya! At this point wala sinumang me karapatan na sabihin sayo mali at tama...right??? as anonymous said: you're the captain of your soul.... and who knows, sa ni risk mong situation ngayon yan pala ang kukumpleto sa buhay mo in end...di ba? Alien???

Anonymous said...

go girl gelai!!!